#061–How do you keep parents from trying to pay off your debts for you?

I'm sure there's some startled blinking going on at that question. I mean, who the hell wouldn't want somebody else to pay their debts off, really? You probably wouldn't be the first; I haven't found any articles about this very concern. Most of Google is focused on debt consolidation or asking parents if they think … Continue reading #061–How do you keep parents from trying to pay off your debts for you?

Spent most of the week around the hospital for my dad, & wrangling with my own debt-planning…

There's something about a family member's illness that just throws everything off track. I'm sure it's no better for the person who is sick, especially if they have no energy to do anything and cannot sleep. When phone calls sounded a little woozy on his end, I started showing up more and more. I Just … Continue reading Spent most of the week around the hospital for my dad, & wrangling with my own debt-planning…

The Pitfalls of Honesty

I came to the conclusion this weekend that one of two things needs to happen: I need to learn how to become a much better liar, one who doesn't give a damn if there are mistakes and can bluff like crazy. OR I keep being honest financially and employment-wise, but learn how to deal with the debt and anxiety that results from it.