Ask and ye shall receive. I was about to do some more heavy contemplation and figuring out (after draining myself dry of emotion yesterday) and what do I find in my blog site list?

A damned good start, from Psychology Today.

I tend to let things get to me and just can’t figure out where to get started to make changes I want to make. Understanding the subtle differences between things like achieving and doing, or shoulds vs. wants, is something I needed. I’m keeping this article for sure, and taking some very careful notes to work with.

So, without further ado, an answer to a prayer I didn’t remember verbalizing (and some help for all the others struggling like me out there, I hope):

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fixing-families/201806/what-stops-you-doing-what-you-want-do